Know the Threat
Online Exploitation
How predators reach kids through the apps they already use, what sextortion looks like, and how to report it fast.
What It Is
The Threat in Their Hand
Predators use social media, gaming platforms, messaging apps, and live chat to reach children directly — bypassing every adult who would normally stand between them. The device in a child’s hand is now the most common point of first contact.
Shame and fear keep victims silent. Many believe they caused it and that telling an adult will only make it worse.
The Scope
Where It Starts
Contact often begins inside games and apps kids already love, through voice chat, DMs, or “friend” requests from fake peers.
Sextortion
A predator tricks or pressures a child into sending one image, then threatens to expose it unless they send more, pay money, or stay silent. Boys are targeted heavily.
Going Dark
Offenders move conversations quickly to private, disappearing, or encrypted apps to escape any monitoring.
Why Kids Stay Quiet
Shame and the fear of getting in trouble keep victims silent with the abuser instead of turning to a trusted adult.
Warning Signs
Hiding the screen or switching apps fast when you walk by
New online “friends” the family has never met, especially older ones
Spikes of anxiety or panic tied to notifications and messages
Unexplained gift cards, money requests, or hidden accounts
Late-night use and a strong reaction to losing the device
Sudden withdrawal, secrecy, or fear after being online
What You Can Do
Make It Safe to Tell
Lead with “you’re not in trouble.” A child who fears punishment will stay silent with a blackmailer instead of coming to you.
Don’t Delete
Save the messages, usernames, and profiles. They’re evidence. Stop responding to the offender, but do not erase the trail.
Report It
File a report with the NCMEC CyberTipline. If images of a minor are circulating, NCMEC’s Take It Down service can help get them removed.
Where to Report
Important Disclaimer
This website is for informational purposes only. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency number.